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Being Kind to Yourself

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Self-criticism is often seen as a virtue. But psychologist Kristin Neff says there’s a better path to self-improvement — self-compassion. She says people who practice self-compassion are more conscientious and more likely to take responsibility for their mistakes.

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久期
久期
2021.10.15
坐标中国大陆,这个节目从过去两周开始全部可以听了。
oinkoinkk:yesss!终于!
复读柯基
复读柯基
2021.10.14
49:24 "the more i accept myself, the more i can change. But it is not like i have to change in order to be worthy, ss i want to change becasue i care about myself and i don't wanna suffer. It is much more effective type of motivation and more sustainable in the long run."
好像大部分人总是会原谅别人的错误,但很难放下自己的失误,尽管是很小的失误。
1laine
1laine
2021.10.14
It’s ok it’s not the end of the world:)
落落juaner
落落juaner
2021.11.03
1.对自己更好,更友善 2. 犯错时不要一个劲地自我批评,而是好好回顾这件事,想想以后应该怎么做,从中吸取经验 3. 明白自己并非完人,犯错误是很正常的,告诉自己:没关系,犯错误不代表天就要塌了,不代表我就是失败的人
Lilisnotlil
Lilisnotlil
2021.10.24
47:50 When you are in an ally to yourself, you are gonna be much more capable of getting through the hard times than when you are an enemy to cut yourself down.
听片尾播报,本集制作团队有8个人。
永恒:在好几个英文播客下面都看到了不二的身影哈哈哈
不二爱心理:唉嘿嘿
Zudy
Zudy
2021.11.30
36:07 shame shuts down our ability to learn and grow 想到很多其他的羞耻,荡妇羞辱、月经羞耻…
49:25 "The more I accept myself, the more I can change"
24:29 so true 陷入 negativity bias的人,很难接收、承认与“还有好事”“我是好的”相关的信息。
16:06 在潜意识里,批评自己的动机是帮助自己保持安全;自我攻击是“fight, flee, freeze“中的 fight。但自我攻击的结果很难达成“让自己真正安全”的目的。
Lilisnotlil
Lilisnotlil
2021.10.24
We want to be a little bit above average.
Sushiii
Sushiii
2021.10.24
22:48 “Whatever you resist actually grows stronger”
陈清扬_upI8
陈清扬_upI8
2021.11.29
32:02 这一段Shanker说的很好。
落落juaner
落落juaner
2021.11.03
认识到自己并非完人,自己是会有缺陷的这一点太重要了。我犯了错误的时候,总是会想:我怎么会这样? 我从来不会这样的,我是不是变糟糕了,不如以前的我了。
Sushiii
Sushiii
2021.10.24
38:42 “in order to be kind to ourselves, we have to acknowledge that we’re hurting.”