#584: Bo Shao — His Path from Food Rations to Managing Billions, the Blessings and Burdens of Chasing Perfection, Building the eBay of China in 1999, Pillars of Parenting, and Pursuing the Unpopular

#584: Bo Shao — His Path from Food Rations to Managing Billions, the Blessings and Burdens of Chasing Perfection, Building the eBay of China in 1999, Pillars of Parenting, and Pursuing the Unpopular

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Bo Shao is a co-founder and the chairman of Evolve, a philanthropic investment firm composed of a foundation, Evolve Foundation, and an impact investment firm, Evolve Ventures. With an initial capital of $100 million from the Shao family, Evolve aims to support organizations that relieve inner suffering and facilitate inner transformation. He is also the co-founder of Parent Lab, an app that helps parents meet common parenting challenges (a new version launches on April 10th).

Prior to Evolve, Bo was a founding partner of Matrix China, a leading technology venture capital firm in China, which manages more than $7 billion and has funded more than 500 companies, 50+ of which have become unicorns. He is also a serial entrepreneur who has co-founded five companies that have either gone public or become leaders in their respective industries.

Bo was born in China and was a winner of more than a dozen national mathematics competitions during high school. When he was 17, he left China for Harvard College on a full scholarship — one of the first such scholarships Harvard granted to a person from mainland China. After receiving his A.B. summa cum laude in physics and electrical engineering, he worked for Boston Consulting Group and Goldman Sachs and received his MBA from Harvard Business School.

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Bo shares what it was like to grow up poor in Shanghai, how his uncanny math acumen was sharpened with poker cards and rewarded with ketchup and hugs, and the lifelong lessons he absorbed from his parents. 07:07

How did Bo wind up getting a full scholarship to Harvard? 16:30

What did Bo do to learn and refine his English language skills, and why does he consider the pattern of behavior that compels him to excel a “burden?” 18:26

How much of a culture shock did Bo experience when he moved to the United States in 1991? What were the most noticeable differences between China and the US? 26:47

Why is Bo committed to bringing MDMA-assisted psychotherapy to China? What unique traumas have recent generations of Chinese experienced en masse that might be greatly alleviated by such treatments? 34:15

Bo walks us through what it took to build his first startup during the age of dial-up modems after returning to China from a lucrative job in the US, and how his parents reacted. 43:29

As someone so hardwired toward rationality, how did Bo weigh the pros and cons of beginning his own entrepreneurial venture in China instead of pursuing stable, high-paying employment for someone else in the US? Did he have a contingency plan in case things didn’t work out? 50:46

Western names don’t always translate easily into Chinese. Take mine, for example. 55:19

The ups and downs of startup life and the finite resources that even a math wizard can easily lose track of. 1:00:14

How did Bo roll with cash flow problems and a major source of funding potentially drying up during a time of dire market fluctuations? 1:03:31

It turns out Harvard is a great place to increase one’s vocabulary. 1:06:55

How Bo’s superpower-charging study regimen resembles meditation. 1:09:11

Whatever happened to Bo’s first startup? 1:11:34

How did meeting the woman who would become Bo’s wife enhance his emotional development? 1:13:20

How old was Bo when he “retired” after selling EachNet, what motivated him to rejoin the entrepreneurial world, and what have been some of his most noteworthy accomplishments since? 1:16:09

How did personal introspection become a priority for Bo after years of resistance to the idea, and how has his life improved — as a friend, husband, and father — as a result? 1:17:50

What tools, perspectives, realizations, and resources have helped Bo make progress on his journey of self-discovery? 1:26:38

What does Bo believe is missing right now from the discussion around psychedelics and related therapies? 1:35:55

Projects with which Evolve is involved, Bo’s thoughts on the importance of inner work (particularly for people who are, as he was, overly focused on the rational), and other parting thoughts. 1:40:21

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Jess静姝
Jess静姝
2022.4.13
#优质播客推荐# Tim Ferriss Show最新一期,采访了邵亦波,非常真诚的对话,能听出俩人因各自都经历过成功的荣耀及其阴暗面,也都做过许多内在功课而产生的惺惺相惜。

- 理智与情绪

邵讲述,自己有一个天才脑,从小用扑克做速算,中学得了奥数冠军,自学新概念英语,申请哈佛本科,用的是考研的GRE分数。过去的他,只信任自己的分析逻辑能力,觉得情绪“像阑尾一样可以割舍”,是理性决策的阻碍。直到发现自己一直在追求卓越,只想得第一名,屡屡成功,却学不会松弛,也并不是真的快乐。

他的高标准、完美主义,一方面给他带来了世俗意义上巨大的成功,但同时也是创伤的印记。他开始了漫长的内在探索之旅。起初他会觉得讲感受、谈创伤之类的事情很“恶心”,但如今他已然成了备受尊敬的身心灵领域的投资人。

- 友谊与配得感

邵说,他很长一段时间是没有朋友的。表面上是觉得自己更擅长理性分析,不擅长经营友谊,也似乎不需要跟人谈心,不如做更重要的大事,背后其实是深信自己“不值得”。从小到大的优秀和成功经历让他有了一个根深蒂固的信念——别人愿意跟我做朋友一定是因为我有用,但如果我什么利益都不给对方,凭什么值得被人关心呢?(他坦言直到今天也偶尔还是会这样想。)

从小就学会用”优秀”取悦父母的孩子,似乎都会面临这样的困惑,那就是,我如果没那么厉害,还会不会被爱?而很多年来我在心里给自己的答案是“不会”,也从未质疑它,从而总是感到自卑,哪怕已经很棒,也会误以为自己感受到的空虚和痛苦是因为还不够厉害。我花了很长时间才与这份误解拉开距离,听到这段有种熟悉的感动。

- 亲子关系

邵小的时候,父亲常常无端暴怒,在这种家庭里成长的孩子,往往都会高度警觉,神经系统长期高压负重。他曾暗自发誓自己绝不会成为父亲的样子。有了孩子后,自己竟也会突然发火,这才意识到,那是因为自己并没有体验过被耐心引导和共情,也没有学过更有效的让孩子听话的方式。

谈到父亲对自己的影响,邵说这份严苛很大程度上形塑了自己追求卓越的执念。他提到父亲经历的那个年代的事情,意识到这是很深的集体创伤,自己现在的投资基金也是希望推动MDMA辅助下的心理治疗,当然这个在国内并不容易。

- 落地觉醒

播客里让我最有共鸣的观点是:很多人追求震撼而超脱的灵性体验 (尤其是在启灵药的辅助下),在他看来就像是被直升机载着打开了视野,但往往直升机还是会降落回原地。如果说这种宏大的、对内在神性、对万物合一的惊鸿一瞥是waking up,那么更重要的其实是waking down,也就是在把顿悟点点滴滴落在日常生活中,把每一刻都当作修行。

向内探索不再只是给自己一两次工作坊、三个月心理咨询,然后期待就此“痊愈”,今后再也不用做这些功课了。这是一个无限游戏,值得承诺一辈子。而显然,那个曾经觉得这件事“恶心”的邵亦波,已经与自己、与家人、与世界的关系里,尝到了朴素而深刻的喜悦。
米粒小雨:老师,我是跟着 Steve老师的 newsletter 推荐来的,感谢你的分享🤝
雨荷HKSG
雨荷HKSG
2022.4.10
意外的这集很好听,嘉宾对于个人成长,社会文化和时代更迭有很多反思,Tim的中文发音不错!01:05:03说自己中文字这段很可爱
eve柒
eve柒
2022.4.08
第一次知道Tim的中文这么好
卓君-:会四国语言👍🏻
布朗主任
布朗主任
2022.4.07
07:07 正片
1:09:42 如何依靠记扑克牌帮训练专注力,拥有资深冥想者的状态
L沸伊
L沸伊
2022.4.17
Very inspirational. Thank you Tim and Bo Shao.
The浩克
The浩克
2022.4.14
1:11:31 这里好受启发啊
Phoebe火山
Phoebe火山
2022.4.13
中间这段这段Bo Shao 的声音很像谢尔顿的, 哈哈哈 cute
一知羊
一知羊
2022.4.10
1:43:07 be careful with what/who you choose to learn from
一知羊
一知羊
2022.4.10
1:07:05 cajole,GRE 词汇惹!
卓君-
卓君-
2022.4.09
11:06 1973年出生,4-5岁,正是文革刚结束的时候
不是邵亦波么,怎么改名邵波了。再说一次,Tim是不是学过中文
Tim的中文发音不错,“老外”“张艺谋”
董懂懂懂
董懂懂懂
2022.4.07
I don’t konw啊,哈哈哈
Kenny020
Kenny020
2022.4.07
nice
雨荷HKSG
雨荷HKSG
2022.4.07
是不是第一次邀请中国人做嘉宾?