"The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read" by Philippa Perry
01 现在给你爸妈看，也还来得及 Oh you wish!
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终于等到了贝贝的播客，贝贝出品，必属精品♥️♥️
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英文原文：
The core of parenting is the relationship you have with your child.
We should not see our babies, children, and teenagers as chores to feed and clean or otherwise fix but as people from the start, people we are going to have lifelong relationships with. This gives us the best chance of making our bonds with them loving and secure.
I often see parents thinking they can treat children as things to be efficient about, to deal with and fix.
We are creating a person to love, not a work of art.
If people were plants, the relationship would be the soil. The relationship supports, nurtures, allows growth—or inhibits it. Without a relationship they can lean on, a child’s sense of their security is compromised. You want the relationship to be a source of strength for your child—and, one day, for their children too.
The core of parenting is the relationship you have with your child.
We should not see our babies, children, and teenagers as chores to feed and clean or otherwise fix but as people from the start, people we are going to have lifelong relationships with. This gives us the best chance of making our bonds with them loving and secure.
I often see parents thinking they can treat children as things to be efficient about, to deal with and fix.
We are creating a person to love, not a work of art.
If people were plants, the relationship would be the soil. The relationship supports, nurtures, allows growth—or inhibits it. Without a relationship they can lean on, a child’s sense of their security is compromised. You want the relationship to be a source of strength for your child—and, one day, for their children too.
谢谢婧❤️！接下来更新要慢了😆
不着急，慢慢来，每期都是精品！👍👍👍
好羡慕桉桉能有这样一位优秀的妈妈！
对于我们这个年龄段的人（1969年生）来说，一出生就很不好意思地被喂养，沟通是“0”，能吃饱就是最大的满足。内心大多时候是空白的、迷茫的、困惑的！在诸多的触碰中成长，没有棱角，只有小心翼翼地求生存！