You 2.0: How To Say No

You 2.0: How To Say No

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Saying no to someone who asks for something is often easier said than done. Maybe it's a boss who wants you to take on a new assignment. Or your kid's teacher, seeking volunteers for a field trip. Or a friend who asks you to lend her money. How should we respond to these demands on our time, energy, and resources? This week, psychologist Vanessa Patrick explores why it's so hard to say no, and how we can set boundaries that will make it easier to do so. 

If you haven't yet caught the first two episodes in this year's You 2.0 series, you can find them in this podcast feed, or on our website: 

You 2.0: The Gift of Other People

You 2.0: Taking Control of Your Time 

Thanks for listening! 

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HeycouPeng
HeycouPeng
2024.9.06
14:12 The acquaintance trap: the idea when we have weak social ties with people, we are most concerned about that relationship. So we worry about that relationship being most tenuous and most likely to be destroyed if we say no.
真的感同身受,对于不太熟的人的关系我们反而更加小心翼翼的对待,害怕伤害到两人的关系。真的很有体会🥲
Hiyaa:深有体会+1,因为双方关系还不稳定,一次no就可能造成后续的关系紧张😞
foreversaga
foreversaga
2024.9.04
25:27 但是这些飞行员如果说不愿意,也会被直接枪决吧。所以并不是因为别人的压力而不得不同意,而是因为对于可能的惩罚的畏惧,不得不说,好的👌