#162. Closing The Loop

#162. Closing The Loop

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Today we talk about the psychology of texting, jumping to conclusions, and if we’re destined to repeat the same failures in life.  We talk about text message etiquette, the psychology behind quick responses, slow responses and no responses, and “closing the loop” with people we have unintentionally ignored.  We talk about jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about others and their intentions.  We explore the idea of accepting oneself as is versus constantly struggling to change in the name of personal growth.  We talk about fixating on failure versus success, being overly self-critical versus blindly overconfident and the role of luck.

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HD591233v
HD591233v
2024.9.28
一点也不是shitshow啊大哥们🥹 应该是我听过的最有意思的一期了。你们仨的self awareness(尤其Justin)都已经到了一个正常男生无法比拟的高度,居然能一边继续讨论一边认真回溯自己刚刚每一个争论时被激发的感受,我觉得没有一定的mindfulness训练都不大可能有这样的能力。当然非要说shitshow可能是因为三人都很敏感,对对方表达期间的各种叙述都很容易感到related,所以下意识就会想要赶紧接或者很快发表感受,没法控制就会左跑跑右跑跑,可是这个特质如果被掐掉了也不好,所以可能只是个度的问题吧。
那个关于intelligent的人的问题让我联想到家里人,有很久都在想他们但凡能够增加一点情绪的awareness就能成为更好的人,但是为什么他们不做。最后发现是那一代都没有情绪register,根本不存在develop的capacity,但是我真的很难受,真的很想让他们有——出于我自己的私心。真的很喜欢这期节目。以前的也很喜欢但是这期最喜欢。
另外提一个小建议,开头不说谁是谁我是真的听不出你们谁是谁啊啊啊🥸🥸🥸🥸🥸🥸
王一然_r8vq
王一然_r8vq
2024.11.20
with who? 哈哈哈 原来男生和女生都一样 这算不算吃醋
16:25 Haha 一大早的我笑晕
甜酒虎牙
甜酒虎牙
2024.11.21
16:34 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈笑晕我了
田黎_安梓
田黎_安梓
2024.11.04
17:17 Really? I do a lot of okays and thumbs-up 😄 I suppose it’s because I also got quite a lot of those from others
Finnnnnnnnnn
Finnnnnnnnnn
2024.10.01
17:21 haha
Xiomara
Xiomara
2024.11.02
好久没更新啦
大饼干_WQjt
大饼干_WQjt
2024.10.13
怎么调字幕啊
正在找针中:同求
杨雅琦
杨雅琦
2024.9.25
changing the behaviour
胡锋_Dxzo
胡锋_Dxzo
2024.10.25
我用THD练习英语听力。谢谢提供的transcripts。如果让ai帮你总结,可以是豆包或者通义千问,或者是chatgpt,这样听懂的内容会更多。
04:05 The typically speaking from David wu.
Is host or guest?