最近玫瑰的故事很火，我也看了这部剧。
其中玫瑰在第一段和第二段感情中，自己的情绪反应并不被看见，更不被理解。深深共情了她，然后就有了这集。
稍微聊了下社会中女性的困境，同时这何尝又不折射出一些男性的困境呢(in a different way though).
p.s. 录这集的时候在喝酒，如有口齿不清请见谅嘿嘿（and I'm not sorry about it）
玫瑰的故事：关系中“被看见”为什么这么难
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niki是个非常有同理心的人，和那些单纯说女权主义的人相比，我更欣赏niki的观点，不管男人女人，每个人都期望被理解，被看见，被尊重，被接受，被尊重。人的复杂性不能单纯的的通过标签去标注，当我们有了同理心，你的内心和世界也许就多了从容与自在。
BT主播Niki:说得真好，谢谢你❤️
有文字稿嘛？有些地方不太懂
Welcome back to the channel and it's a girl niki again . So since I released the last episode I have been receiving so many affectionate comments and messages and I just feel so lucky and so happy to have you guys as my listeners. So cheers
.So recently I have been watching玫瑰的故事which is a new Chinese TV show with刘亦菲、万茜and朱珠,being the leading female characters. And just several episodes into this TV drama I find that they portrayal and depiction of many characters are pretty realistic and pretty reliable to so many people. Because it is not trying to write a story in which someone is perfect. You know, especially on the male characters . I mean it is not trying to depict a male that is absolutely a prince charming and know it all and I'm nipotent霸道总裁and stuff. And instead with the story gradually unfolding, we can see that ,you know, a lot of the characters in this show have some real struggles in their relationships. And I think more importantly ,we can use the stories in this TV series as a mirror to reflect upon and also ponder over our own relationships. Actually there are so many issues to be explored in this TV show such as the influence that are（这里应该是错了，应该用is)原生家庭，has left on us and also what is a soul mate and stuff like that .But today I want to especially focus on what has triggered most of my thoughts which is people's natural need to be seen and also to be respected in a relationship. And for those of you guys who have not watched this TV drama yet it is okay to listen to this episode too because if my discussion concerns some key storylines I would definitely introduce the background plots first so that you guys will not feel confused. And right now let's dive right in. 这是一部分，我是边听边整理的
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我觉得我进步了，前几集听了20遍才完全听懂，这几集5遍之内就懂了，真的是practice makes perfect😀😀
恭喜宝宝，你真棒🥰
And of course Rosie felt cared for and loved and this is something that she never got from her first boyfriend. However after they got married ,he wanted to confine Rosie to the household chores and completely ignored her desire to return to work and also find her own value in society. I mean, I think that he just saw her as a mother and homemaker. So once again,Rosie's needs went completely unnoticed and unrepected and of course this caused a growing rift between them So eventually despite having a daughter, they chose to end their relationship especially Rosie. You know ,she was completely determined about ending the relationship in getting the divorce. So at this point, I think that, you know ,in our real life, it's funny, you know, how so many girls just think that if we become excellent and beautiful we can naturally have high quality relationships. But you know ,from Rosie's predicament we can see that this is not the case. Because Rosie is already so beautiful and so excellent and so good in every way but still she suffers from all these troubles and struggles and predicaments. So,I think that it's not about us trying to get better and better and more and more excellent.And sometimes we have to look at issues beyond ourselves .I mean ,for example, many men seem to naturally view life from a self centered perspective, planning and arranging women's lives without considering their desires. You know ,after getting into relationship with men ,they just consider women as their personal property and just like a pet or something like that ,right ?Maybe this is not a very accurate metaphor but you know what I mean, right ? And for example, you know ,moving cities for a man's job seems like very necessary and very're normal .And also a woman staying at home with kids also seems to be very natural. You know, well ,I admit that many women are really happy to make these choices the key is that it is their choice .
能想到男性的困境这一层实在是太伟大了 ❤️
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